እህምም wrote:(i'm assuming the family isn't in Ethio)
You are correct it is not in Ethiopia. I am kind of glad it is not in Ethiopia. This could be worest.
1. if religion is not a problem, get an abortion (if it's legal in the state/country)
I suggested to her mother who is totaly againest it.
2. If she decides to keep the baby, she should search for organizations that help single parents/young parents, etc.
3.I think gurlie is old enough to get a job if she's old enough to have sex. So get a job and figure something out with the father (living arrangements + financial support).
She is almost 27 years old now
4.onother option is she could get down on her knees and cry like a mother to your uncle.
Her father does not even want to see her face. He is so disappointed. He never expected this at all. By the way her boyfriend family do not approve of this and do not want to see her face either. My uncle loves his daughter and wishes her the best pay for her college, get her married. However, she is pregnant at his house.
But yeah, it's kinda funny how your uncle said "you're out of my house" when all along he knew where his daughter has been. I mean use your imagination, I'm sure you're uncle was once her age :roll: He should've put 1 and 1 together if he was going to react this way. እድሜዋ ከሆነ, ሄል....ሪስፖንሲቢሊቲውን ሀንድል ማረግ ትችላለች ማለት ነው, ሶ እንደ አባት ነገሮችን ፋሲሊቴት ከማረግ ውጭ, በጣም ድራስቲክ የሆነ ሜዠር መውሰድ, አይታየኝም::.......ግን ግን እኔ ይሄንን እምለው ኮምፒውተር ፊት ተቀምጬ ነው I know things are not as simple on your side.
I was thinking the same thing until it happened to my family? Belive me it is different.